“You will look more confident and successful in front of your friends”
It’s normal to want to brag a little when something goes your way. It’s a remnant of a childhood sense of superiority, and there’s nothing wrong with that. As long as you aren’t acting immature about it, a little good-natured boasting isn’t too bad. If you win a contest, you want people to know. If you get that promotion at work, you’re going to want to tell your friends. When you take a beautiful woman home, it’s only natural to want to tell your friends. Especially if they know her (or at the very least, have seen her before), it’s going to be hard to resist letting them all know exactly what she was like in bed when you took her home.
The question is, should you really be bragging? On one hand, it’ll make you look great in front of your friends but on the other hand, it could end up coming back to bite you if you should ever want to sleep with that woman or any of her friends again.
It might make you look great in front of your friends, depending on the type of friends you have. If you’re not being a jerk about it, it’ll make you look confident and successful without sounding overly arrogant. Most guys who brag about the women they sleep with don’t mention names, which most agree is probably the best way to go about it. It sounds less like you’re rejoicing after a conquestand more like you’re just proud of yourself for taking a beautiful woman home. Either way, your friends will know to come to you for advice when they’re having problems with any of the women in their lives. Overall, it’s going to be a huge confidence boost for you. That’s always great, right? Maybe, maybe not – believe it or not, there are a few downsides.
“Stop bragging about me”
Let’s say that the woman you’re doing all this bragging about hears that you’ve been telling all your friends every intimate detail of your encounter together. Worst-case scenario, let’s assume that she has at least ten friends. If she puts your name out as a jerk who doesn’t know how to keep personal and private things to himself, your name is going to be ruined for quite some time. Don’t underestimate the power of word-of-mouth, because it could very well ruin you. There’s always the off-chance that your friends are going to think your boasts are obnoxious or arrogant and they’ll be irritated with you, and you don’t want that any more than you want your name blacklisted with half of the female population.
Bragging might seem nice in theory, but it’s probably not the best idea. Not only does it make you seem arrogant in front of friends who might find your constant boasting about all the ladies you sleep with a little off-putting, there’s always the risk that women will find out. No woman likes a man who can’t stop braggingabout all the women he’s slept with, and that’s a fact. Keep the bragging to a minimum, and don’t kiss and tell.