Discover the Secret of Light Bondage: Why Whips and Chains May Be Too Much

“This soft hand cuff will not harm her”

If you want to turn a woman on, you need to be adventurous with her. This can include some light bondage. It is important to know the difference between light bondage and full on BDSM. While she will get excited about a blindfold, tossing in a ball gag will be just way too much. Be smart about what you are introducing into her world to make sure you are getting the kind of response you are looking for. You can try some light spanking, tying her up and blindfolding her, but always be mindful of how she is reacting. If at any time she is uncomfortable, it is time to stop what you are doing and calm her down.

Spank Her Lightly

A little light spanking can turn any girl on. Remember, this is not throwing her over your lap and spanking her like an errant child. This is spanking her during sex or as she is going down on you. It should be playful and hard enough to let her know she is being spanked, but not so hard it is going to hurt her. The object is not to punish her, but to let her know you are being playful with her. If she moans when you spank her, she likes it and you should keep doing it the exact same way throughout sex. If she shoots you a look, stop immediately.

Blindfold Her

“Using blindfold in bed is a great way to spice up your stale sex life”

When you take away one of the senses, the body can compensate by heightening the other senses. This is why so many people enjoy using blindfolds. Without the ability to see what you are doing, she will concentrate on your touch even more. Make sure the blindfold can be removed any time she wants to. This will give her control over what she will see and what will remain in her mind. Use a nice blindfold soft against the skin. If you do not have a blindfold, you can make one out of a soft scarf or a sash. Just make sure you do not tie it on too tight.

Tie Her Up

Using a sash to tie her up can also be a lot of fun. Just make sure it is in a playful way. This means to make sure the tie downs are loose. She needs to know she can get out of the binds any time she wants to. This will allow you to get her excited about the idea of being tied up without the scare of not being able to get free if she wants to. Using something soft can keep her comfortable while you are having fun. Don’t run out and buy some chains just to start tying her up. It will scare her and give her the impression this is what you are into all the time. Keep it light and fun and she will be turned on by some light bondage. She will be sure to show you how much she likes it.

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