“Find out her favorite sexual fantasies”
Every girl has sexual fantasies she would like to play out. The toughest thing you will do with most girls is to get them to first admit they have fantasies, and then what they are. You have to make her feel comfortable before you can start asking her about what fantasies she has and whether she would like to make them come true with you.
Start by telling her your fantasies and you will be on the right track to finding out what hers are. This is the time when you need to start making plans to make her fantasies become a reality. If her fantasy includes going back in time or something like that, you may have to get some stage props, but you will definitely have fun with her if you can pull off making her fantasies come true.
Have an Open Mind
Be prepared to hear some fantasies which may not exactly turn you on. Have an open mind and be willing to try them with her. Even if she is asking to have a threesome with another guy, just go with the flow and make it happen for her. Keep in mind that she is going to be extremely turned on. Not only she is living out her sexual fantasies, but you helped to make it happen. If it is an outlandish fantasy, you will be a sort of hero in her eyes. This is something you can capitalize on!
Setting Your Limits
Make sure when you are talking about fantasies you are being honest about any limits you might have. If she has always fantasized about using a dildo on a guy, and you are not comfortable with that, you need to be honest with her. She will respect your limits and will not ask you to do anything you are not comfortable with. If anything, she will just be happy you were willing to even entertain the offer and not judge her for wanting to do something so kinky.
Make Sure She Knows You Are Not Judging Her
When she is telling you all about her fantasies, you need to make sure you are making her comfortable. Let her know you will keep her fantasies private and you will not tell others. She needs to know she can keep confiding in you, because the fantasies she tells you now may just be the tamest of the fantasies she has in mind. As she realizes you are truly interested in making her fantasies a reality, she will be more willing to share more with you.
Tell Her Your Fantasies
“Make sure your sexual fantasies are on the same track as hers”
Now that you have helped her to make some of her fantasies become a reality, let he know what yours are again. Remind her about the wild threesome with two girls you want to have and she will be more willing than ever to make it happen for you. If at all possible, you may just end up with unfulfilled fantasies.