“She wants to feel sexy in bed”
So many guys are watching their every move when going on dates with girls. This can lead to pretty boring nights when guys are not willing to be a little naughtier. Believe it or not, girls want you to be naughty. They want to have their butts spanked and to have dirty things whispered into their ears. It is your job as the man to give her what she is looking for without having to force her to ask for it. This will allow you to have more fun and will encourage her to do more to turn you on as well. Here are a few of the things you can do to be naughtier and why she likes it.
Get a Little Rough with Her in Bed
Not every woman wants to have a BDSM relationship, but that does not mean she does not want you to be a little rough in the bed. Spanking her butt, grabbing her hair, and pinning her down are all ways to take control and make her feel like she is giving in to your will. This is a big turn on for most women, because it makes them feel they are with a real man rather than with a pushover.
Take caution not to go too far or you will scare her. If she asks you to stop at any point, respect her wishes.
Talk to Her During Sex
She wants to hear what is turning you on while you are having sex. Don’t just go through the motions – tell her how good she feels and ask her if she likes what you are doing. When you are up close, whisper in her ear how much of a freak she is and how much you are enjoying what you are doing to her. Not every girl wants to hear you call them a slut or a dirty little girl, but those who enjoy it will love it when you say it. You may be surprised by the girls who want to hear these kinds of things, because they generally do not seem like the kinds of girls you would expect it from. Be adventurous and you will be rewarded.
Try New Positions
“You should try new sex positions with her”
Women are much more adventurous than most guys realize. This means if you are using the same old tired moves, she is going to get bored with what you are doing. Try something new and impress her. If you are not sure of what positions to try, you can check out Karma Sutra books or just watch some porn. Just don’t get too complicated unless you talk with her about it first. Surprise is a good thing, but when you have an accident leading to pain, it can be a really bad thing. Just make sure you are giving her a little something wild in her sex life and she will make sure you are getting it in return. Have fun following this advice and exploring her wild side with her.