One-night stands aren’t for every guy. It takes a special man to pick up women multiple times a week when all he wants to do is have a string of casual hookups, and let’s face it, not every guy has it. We know you’ve got it in you!
If one-night stands have a certain technique to them, hooking up with married women is an absolute art form. When you’re single but set your sights on women with rings on their fingers, you’re in for an experience that is going to be just as rewarding (if not more so) than a hook up with the average single woman.
While it’s going to be one of the most rewarding experiences of your life, it’s going to take a little bit of extra work though, so you have to be ready to put that in. Married women are in a league all their own, trust us. Sometimes they’re adventurous, other times they’re cheating on their husband to get back at him for some transgression, and sometimes, they’re just lonely. Whatever their reason for looking for something extra on the side, you can be there to give it to them, provided you’re willing to put in a little extra bit of effort.
A Little More Expensive
“You should book a hotel room in advance”
If you’ve set your sights on married women, you’re going to have to be prepared to spend a little bit of extra money. For one thing, they’re not going to go home with just anyone. They’re not desperate and buying one drink for them at a bar isn’t going to make any married women agree to go back to your place right away. They’ve been around the block a time or two with the man they’re married to, and they’re bound to know every trick you’ll try to pull, so don’t expect to succeed right away.
If you like a challenge, this is for you – you’ll just have to impress her and spend a little more than you would for the average casual fling. Additionally, if you’re in a committed relationship yourself, there’s not going to be anywhere to go back to with her. If you don’t want to hook up in the bathroom at the bar (not recommended for obvious reasons) or in the backseat of a car, you’ll have to get a hotel room for the night.
How to Talk to Them
“Be polite and straightforward”
Cheap pick-up lines aren’t going to get you anywhere with married women. They’re not going to be won over by the same lines you’d use on a single woman, and more often than not, if you try and proposition them with one they’ll shoot you down disturbingly quick. A married woman might want time to talk about her life for a bit – if she’s at the bar, why? Is she lonely? Bored? She’ll want a chance to tell you in her own way what she’s looking for and what she wants from you.
We’re not saying you have to listen to a married woman’s whole life story to have a one-night stand with them, but it’s a good idea to listen so you know what she’s looking for. Be straightforward and to the point without being abrasive and blunt, and you’ll win her over.