If you feel like your foreplay is falling a little flat these days, then she’s probably been feeling the same way. Bring that spark back by throwing in a few new tricks, because doing the same thing every time gets boring. Even if you’re adventurous and will eagerly go down on her, she’ll be thankful for the change of pace. Women are difficult to arouse as it is, and you don’t want to get started without being sure she’s into it, too. Try paying attention to these three unassuming spots during foreplay and watch your activity change instantly from dull to dynamic.
“Increase her sex drive by kissing her neck”
While you might leave a few marks here and there on her neck, chances are you aren’t paying it the attention it deserves. A woman’s neckis one of the lesser-known erogenous zones, and stimulating it will get her going in no time flat. Get on her and kiss her neck, bite every once in a while, and then soothe the bites with your tongue. Once you’ve done that for a while, pull back just a bit to breathe over all the marks. The chill will give her shivers that run all the way down to her clit, and she’s sure to moan. Really play up things by biting down to her shoulders because all of the skin there is insanely sensitive.
Speaking of insanely sensitive, the forearms are the oddest place for an erogenous zone, but here they are. There’s a reason why wrists are considered erotic in many countries – the skin is pale and more tender than the rest of her skin, and will give her goose bumps if played with every time. Hold her hand and stretch her arm out while you kiss from her shoulder down to her wrist, licking and biting occasionally. You don’t have to leave hickeys, because even the tiniest bite will get her tingling. Scratch on her forearms while you’re kissing, too – you won’t regret it.
“Spend a lot of time kissing and licking her legs up and down”
To make her feel like a total goddess in the bedroom, spend a lot of time on her legs. They’re half of her body, but most men leave a woman’s legs alone for the most part. They’re not just for when you want them around your waist – legs are very sensitive to touch, especially because most men won’t have played with them. Kiss from her feet up to her thighs when you go down on her. The gesture is sweet and sensitive while still getting her wet, so there’s really no downside. A lot of women are very self-conscious about their legs, and any insecurity will make her less responsive in bed. Kissing up her legs and paying a lot of attention to them will tell her that you love them and think that they’re flawless, which will give her the confidenceto be the bombshell you know she is. She especially deserves some leg love because it takes a lot of time getting those all shaved and smooth – pay them some respect and she’ll go nuts.