“Sending her a sexy message is the best way to drive her crazy”
Women respond well to the written word. Lots of women read romance novelsand it seems like they’re always swooning over the racy things the men in there say. Why not make her dreams come true and send her some steamy messages? Sexting is one thing, but it seems like 160 characters just isn’t enough to really get out what you want to say.
For the length you need, shooting her a steamy e-mail is a great idea. If you’ve been staying together and you’ll see her before she leaves for work in the morning, slipping a hand-written message about your desires will be a wonderful surprise for her later in the day. Think of a sexier version of the lunchbox messages you had when you were a kid.
It’s a great way to keep her thinking about you even when you aren’t together. If she checks her e-mail during her lunch break and sees a sexy message, she’s going to have you on her mind for the rest of the day. The same goes for a handwritten message she reaches into her pocket and finds in the middle of a meeting. She’ll be so turned on by such a simple little gesture that when she sees you again, you can bet she’ll want to jump right into bed with you! Use these tips to write the perfect steamy message to the woman you’re seeing.
The Right Amount of Detail
“Write those sexy lines that she loves to read”
The secret to a great racy message is to put those sexy little details she loves into, but to always leave her wanting more. Unless she asks for it, don’t tell her exactly what you’re going to do to her. Hint at it. Alternatively, mention all the things you’re going to do to tease her but leave her guessing about how you’re going to get her off. Tell her that you plan to take her clothes off and kiss all the spots on her that make her squirm, but don’t elaborate. She’ll be left wondering what you’re going to do when she sees you again. If she’s really into it, she’ll end up texting you from work about how wet she’s getting from your message.
Keep It Racy, But Not Vulgar (Unless She Wants That)
Unless she asks for a dirty, vulgar message telling you what you’re going to do to her, leave thevulgar languageout of it. There are tons of women who’d probably get off on that, but you’re better off enticing her with small amounts of detail and a smutty admission every now and then. Tell her that you can’t wait to kiss up her thighs until they’re shaking, but leave any descriptions more vulgar than that out of it if you want a steamy message. Women have vivid imaginations. Give her a few hints at what you’re going to do and let her fantasize about the rest. She’ll have imagined twenty different things in her mind for the rest of the day at work and on her way home and you’ll be very pleased with the results.