How to Have a Fling

So, you’ve realized that having a relationship just isn’t in the cards for you right now. That’s fine; it’s happened to all of us, and some of us are just in that place a little more permanently than others.

You still have a sex drive.

You might really enjoy having a fling, especially if this is your first time doing so. You don’t have to worry about the long-term consequences, because there aren’t any. You can just enjoy yourself without worrying about tomorrow. One of the most important things you need to do if you’re looking for hookups is look for sites that will help you find hookups and flings. You might think that you can just use any dating site, but this isn’t true; a vast majority of the women on traditional dating sites are actually out to find marriages and husbands, not just fun hookups.

You don’t want to spend your time looking for a fling trying to avoid the women who want relationships. You want to already be surrounded by women who are going to make sure you have a great time, because that’s what they want from you.

We’ll walk you through it. We’ll show you the best ways, step by step, to get everything you want and none of the emotional baggage you want to avoid.

Moving from Steadies to Flings

You can have a relationship of any length that feels good to you—and it’s not your fault you’re learning that having a full-time woman is too much work. We’ll show you how to make sure you’re making the right choice, and how to engage in your first short-term relationship.

Why a Fling Over a Full Time Woman?

There are serious benefits to having a woman full-time—but none of that compares to how much fun it is to date fling after fling. We’ll teach you why shorter relationships are more fun, and why you want to be having more of them.

Finding the Best Fling Sites

What makes a good fling site? We’ll show you in a comprehensive guide to the best fling sites online. You want to have the best experience in hunting for flings, and we’ll show you how to rate whether a site is good, bad, or just okay.

What’s a Fling Dating Scam?

If you’ve ever wondered about your safety when you were looking into how to have a fling online, wonder no more. This guide will show you not only how to spot fling dating scams, but how to make sure that they don’t happen to you.

How to Avoid Scams

In any con, the most important thing is that the person being conned doesn’t know that they’re a patsy. We’ll help you realize long before your money leaves your wallet what the danger signs are, and how you can keep yourself safe.

Making Your Profile Work

A fling dating profile can be the most important asset you have. We’ll show you why it’s so important, and how you can make it work for you to attract hot babes to your profile with no effort.

Taking Your Pick

You’ve got girls eating out of the palm of your hand—and now’s the time that you pick your favorites and leave the rest behind. We’ll show you how to get lots of girls instead of just one, and why you should never settle for second-best.

Setting Up Dates

You might think that finding a woman who will talk to you is next to impossible, but we’ll take all the stress out of that—and out of the most important step, the setting up of the date.

Compiling Your Findings

What good are results if they don’t get used? We’ll show you why it’s important (and not nerdy) to write down all of your findings while you’re engaging in fling dating.

Black Book Tips

Want to fill that little black book of women’s names? We’ll show you how to build a long list that you can use whenever you’re starting to feel like you’re running a bit dry this week and you need an easy lay.

Calling Her Back

The first contact is important—but not as important as the first phone call AFTER the date. You want to make sure that everything goes well, and we’ll show you how to pull that off effortlessly.

Keeping Everything Straight

Was her name Gina or Lina? We’ll show you some of our tricks to making sure that you’re not saying the wrong name or showing up to a restaurant on the wrong night.

Parting Words

Anything we haven't covered yet? It's probably in here. We'll teach you how to maintain your social life during a fling, how to make sure you're treating your fling with respect, and how to make sure you get the most out of every moment of your fling dating.


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