Taking Your Pick

If you’re going to have a fling online, you have to make sure you’re going to be presenting yourself in the right way. In other words, you might be the kind of guy that works a low-brow job and doesn’t do much in his spare time, but it’s important that you don’t act like one.

That doesn’t mean you have to lie. You don’t have to say you’re secretly a billionaire or that you’ve got women hanging off of your every move. It’s not important what you say, exactly – you just have to ACT like that’s the life you’re living.

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Remember that you’re in demand.

A man that other women want is a man that’s worth having. That’s the way women think, a lot of the time. They’ll instantly go after a guy that has a lot of women hanging off of him, even if he’s not exactly her type a lot of the time, because of a few things.

First, women tend to trust the opinions of other women. If other women want you, you’re automatically “good.”

Second, most women have a competitive streak a mile wide. If they can get the pick of the litter, they’ll be much more satisfied with their choice, even if you’re no different this way than you were before.

This is true both in dating and in fling dating.

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Women want what other women have, and women want what they can’t have. It’s a fundamental truth, and it pretty much applies to everyone, not just to the women.

If you’re coming off as desirable, whether to women she knows or to women that she’s just finding out about, any woman you’re targeting is going to be a lot more likely to respond in a positive manner. After all, you’re the guy who’s attracting all of the female attention. It makes a woman think that she should probably be attracted, too.

When you want to have a fling, you want to come across as a woman’s first choice. It might not matter to you whether you’re her first or fifth choice as long as it gets her in bed, but trust us. You WANT to be this woman’s first choice for hooking up.

The secret to being their first choice is being the prize.

On dating sites, everyone knows that they work pretty much the same way. A woman who’s at least average in attractiveness goes onto a dating site, and all of the guys immediately start hitting on her. She can then take her pick of whichever guys she wants, and the lucky dude gets to go off and talk to her, maybe have a date.

It doesn’t need to work like that.

In many ways, you’re the prize that the woman is looking for. This is true, whether you’re aware of it or not. The women on these sites are looking for a very specific kind of guy sometimes, but on fling dating sites, they’re also more open to broadening their horizons. After all, they’re only planning on getting to know a guy for a little while; why not try out something new that they haven’t tried before?

You don’t need to work too hard at this.

One thing you need to know about how to have a fling is that you don’t have to keep up this faade for too long. Yes, you’re technically pretending to be someone you’re not, but you don’t have to do it full time or anything, and you’re mostly just doing it for fun.

If you’re making yourself appear in demand and you’re worried that someone will find out, relax. The fact is, as soon as the profile starts doing the work for you, it’ll be true.

You’ll attract women based on the fact that they THINK other women are attracted to you (it sounds dumb, but it works). Then, you don’t have to pretend anymore, because the women who are attracted to you will just be more incentive for other women. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy more than a lie, so take advantage of it.

Any time you want to have a fling, you have to make sure you’re putting out there the kind of information that women are going to respond to. If you’re not sure what that is, take a look at the profiles of guys who get a lot of dates. It’s the attitude you want to copy, not the actual words themselves.

Once you’ve got it down for the first couple of women, keep it going. You’ll have a system in place for roping these girls in in no time.


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