Calling Her Back

The best thing about fling dating (it’s short-term) is also the worst thing about fling dating (it’s short-term). This means that even if you like a woman, you never get to see her again, right?


There are definitely ways to stay in contact with the women you like on fling dating sites, and even ways to make sure that you can hook up with them again in the future.

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Whatever you do, make sure you’re not presenting yourself as trying to be her boyfriend. Women are on fling sites for the same reason men are. They don’t want a boyfriend, and they’ll get annoyed by a guy that starts to act like one after a fling.

If you met a woman on top-rated fling dating site, you’re going to find that she’s not all that into the idea of having a boyfriend. In fact, if you call her immediately after you hook up, she’s probably going to make it a point to “lose” your phone number.

You can still call her after the date.

Just make sure that you’re not calling her the day after the date. You can send her a text message the morning after (if you’re not waking up in the same bed) or the evening after if you wound up spending the morning together. Just a nice little, “Hope you’re doing OK – I had fun :)” is usually enough to say, “I had a great time and care that you got home safely” without being creepy or desperate and demanding.

Barring that text message, even if she doesn’t respond, you can still call her. You just shouldn’t call her the day after, or even the day after that. Three days is usually a good rule for just about anything dating related, if you want to make sure not to look like a crazy dude with way too much time on his hands. For fling dating, however, you should wait longer.

You can get another round very easily.

Choking His GF


Unless she’s using a one-and-done policy for having flings, this woman is probably going to be just as happy to meet up again as you are – as long as you didn’t suck at the sex part.

Wait a week, and then give her a call to see if she wants to meet up again. Chances are, she’ll probably say yes (unless something went horribly wrong without you realizing it).

Yes, a full week.

You might be wondering what happened to the three-day rule. Well, it’s still there – and you should use it whenever you’re trying to actually date someone. If you’re looking to get with a fling again, however, make sure to wait a full total week.

You can turn this into friends with benefits.

Turning a fling into a longer-term relationship, but without the emotional commitment, is something that not every guy can pull off. Don’t worry if it’s not something that comes naturally to you. A lot of guys aren’t always that good at this.

However, if you can pull it off, it can be awesome. Friends with benefits is one of the most fun relationships you can ever have. It’s more intimate than a casual hookup, but you’re still only connecting with someone for the purposes of having sex with them.

You basically get all the benefits, none of the detriments… as long as you can pull it off properly. Make sure you’re not going to get too emotionally invested in this relationship.

Remember that women are rating you.

This might not be any fun to remember. However, it’s important to keep in mind that if you’re using fling dating sites that are legit, the women you meet are going to be just as judgmental as you are.

Think about the ways you’ve rated in the past, whether it’s on “she looks like she doesn’t take care of herself” or “she looks like a lot of work” or whatever else has come to mind when you’ve been browsing profiles.

She’s thinking the same thing about you.

You don’t have to stress or obsess over this fact. Just be aware of it. More than being aware of it, make sure that you’re being rated… and you don’t want to come across as the sad clingy guy.


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