If there’s one mistake of ours that you can take and learn from, it should be that being disorganized is for suckers.
Being disorganized has led to us missing dates, messing up names, and in general just not picking the right sites to use because we weren’t sure of our data. Therefore, we think it’s pretty much the most important thing you can do to make certain that you’re very organized.
This doesn’t take the fun out of fling dating.
On the contrary, being organized in your dating will probably make it more fun in the long run, because you’re going to be able to keep track of the women you meet and make sure you’re meeting the right women.
If you’re putting all of your time and energy into meeting women instead of into keeping your stuff straight, you’re going to get more women… for the first week. After that, you’re going to find that your pipeline of women will dry up significantly, and you won’t be able to meet women for multiple times because you won’t know where their information is.
A better plan is to just keep everything organized. That way, you’ll make sure you aren’t mixing everything up, and you’ll be able to keep track of everything you want to remember.
A little black book is, of course, key. You want to be able to look women up quickly and efficiently, and that means you want to be able to flip though their vital stats (to you) at a moment’s notice.
Keeping organized keeps you safer.
One of the biggest reasons to stay organized is the fact that you’ll be able to better spot fling dating site scams if you know what they look like – and you have the info to back you up handy.
This means you should not only keep track of the good women you meet for future reference, but you should also keep tabs on the ones you meet who try to scam you. That way, you’ll see right away if they pop up again when you’re using the same site or another one, and you won’t get fooled again.
Scammers are, in general, pretty lazy. They won’t create a new profile if the old one hasn’t been banned yet, and you’ll be able to tell very easily if there’s a similarity between their old name and their new one, as long as you’re keeping track.
This isn’t as much work as it sounds like.
Yes, we’re telling you to keep track of a lot of stuff. Fortunately, that’s a pretty easy task, if you’re even a little bit organized. If not, it’s pretty easy to learn how to get that way.
Keep a list of your dates as well.
This is still less work than having a full-time girlfriend. You don’t have to remember birthdays or anniversaries, you don’t have to even know where she lives, and you don’t have to meet her mother. You just need to keep a couple quick notes on each girl. A note section might look like this:
- Michelle _______
- Short blonde hair, brown eyes, lots of earrings
- Really likes pasta (will put out for good Italian)
- Allergic to peanuts
- Blindfolds are a NO, spanking is a GO
That’s really all you need! Just jot down notes like this after your fling is over, and you’re going to be well-equipped for the next time you see this girl. This will also help you to keep your girls separate for future reference, because no one likes getting confused with someone else. Like you can see in our notes section, this can also earn you points, or lose them. If you bring Michelle up there a piece of peanut butter candy, she’s probably not going to be too happy with you if she’s already told you she’s allergic (not that you should be going around giving out Reese’s Cups to your dates, but you know what we mean).
Yes, some fling dating sites that are legit have places you can keep notes on the girls.
However, we like to do this by hand. We have a few reasons for this. First, you never know who’s going to open up your laptop. Even if it’s password protected, there’s still the possibility that you could leave it open while you run to the bathroom, and you don’t want to have to deal with the fallout from that.
Another thing to remember is that not every woman stays on fling sites forever, but that doesn’t mean she won’t be open to the idea of meeting up with you again for sex.
She might have moved on from the site (in which case your on-site notes will be useless), but she could still pick up the phone when you call. Make sure you have notes at least copied out into physical form for these purposes, or at least saved somewhere other than the site.