Let’s get this out of the way: collecting data does not make you a nerd. Instead, it makes it so that you can have the best possible experience with real fling dating sites.
If you want to make the most out of your time on these sites (and yes, get more dates), follow along and we’ll show you how to keep track of every bit of progress you make.
Write everything down.
Yes, everything. We’re not talking about keeping a journal, we’re talking about how you should document your experiences on any website you try out. Our experience has shown that we get the most girls out of a site when we keep track of what we’re doing right, and what we’re doing wrong
The only way you can figure out if you’re doing well on a site is to keep all of your information. You want to see how many emails you get back for each one you send, how many women show up to your dates when they say they will, and how many times you actually get laid on a site. Otherwise, you’re just fumbling around in the dark, and you WILL forget.
Once you figure out if a site is a legit fling dating site or not, you should start writing down notes about the individual women. Do this after you talk to a woman for the first time on the messaging system, as well as after you talk a few times, and after your first date. Then, later on if you’re not sure whether she’s worth another chance or not, you can always pull out your handy black book to make sure you’re following through on the right woman.
We’ve gotten confused about women before.
We’ll come clean here – we’re no saints. We do know now that compiling data is the absolute best way to make sure that you’re going to keep all of the women you’re seeing straight.
Rate women in your black book.
When you’ve seen lots of women on these sites, go ahead and put them in a little black book, full of all the women you think you can call whenever you need to scratch an itch. This list should be pretty comprehensive. As long as you have a lot of women on it, you won’t need to worry about sleeping alone, except by your own choice.
Your black book can be something you keep on your computer in a spreadsheet, or it can be something you keep in your pocket with handwritten notes. How you keep it is not the important thing. The names are what you want, along with the phone numbers.
Staying organized will help you get laid more.
Even if a girl is the best lay in the world, it’s hard to sleep with her if you can’t find her number. A lot of guys make the tragic mistake of relying on a free fling dating site to be a constant source of a girl’s phone number when they’ve met on that site.
This is, unfortunately, a huge mistake. Women don’t tend to use any one fling dating site for very long. Even if they love a site, they’ll use it for a couple months, then forget about it, then go back to using it again. Remember that many fling dating sites are free for women, so they don’t have to worry about paying for the overhead monthly.
The only way to make sure you’re going to be in contact with all the women you want to see is to keep organized, have the book on hand, and make sure you keep it up to date.
You’ll need to cut some women off.
There are some women that aren’t going to be in your black book forever. Maybe they started acting annoying, maybe they weren’t a really great lay, or maybe you just don’t get alone with them for more than 15 minutes at a time on any given day.
You have to make the choice about whether you’re going to bump this woman off of your list completely, or whether she’s “good, but not AS good” as the other women you’ve been meeting. For either reason, make sure you write down what you think is wrong with her.
You may have noticed that we said you should write down why this woman isn’t one of your go-to girls. Shouldn’t you just throw away, delete, or lose her information?
It’s up to you.
If you’re going to succeed on a fling dating site, you’re going to still have lean weeks. It can help to keep a “bottom of the barrel” section, just to make sure you’re not sleeping alone by necessity.